Jerry Bledsoe
Before He Wakes
A nonfiction account of this case. See the linked edition for publication details and available formats.
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Unforgotten CasebookThe cases. The books. The screen stories.Durham, North Carolina · 1988

The story behind Before He Wakes
Barbara Stager said her husband Russ’s fatal shooting in their North Carolina bedroom in 1988 was an accident. Investigators questioned her account and examined the earlier shooting death of her first husband. Russ had recorded concerns about his safety before his death. Barbara was convicted of his murder.
Content note: violence, abuse, or loss. Linked material may contain graphic descriptions. Screen dramatizations may change events and dialogue.
Durham, North Carolina. The map provides regional context; individually verified historical places are listed below.
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Jerry Bledsoe
A nonfiction account of this case. See the linked edition for publication details and available formats.
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IMDb · TV episode
IMDb episode reference connected to the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Listed release: 2000. Cast, credits, and title information; viewing availability is separate.
Credits & title details on IMDbIMDb · TV episode
IMDb episode reference connected to the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Listed release: 1999. Cast, credits, and title information; viewing availability is separate.
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The Herald-Sun · 1989-05-23 · Page 1
The Herald-Sun records a friend’s perspective after Stager’s conviction for killing Russ Stager.
Historical sentencing coverage; quoted opinions are the interviewee’s.
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Listen to the episodeMountain Murders
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released January 4, 2021. About 123 minutes.
Listen to the episodeSouthern Fried True Crime
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 24, 2019. About 77 minutes.
Listen to the episodeTrue Crime Brewery
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released June 1, 2021. About 109 minutes.
Listen to the episodeLOVE MURDER
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released July 28, 2021. About 96 minutes.
Listen to the episodeBless This Mess: A Southern True Crime Podcast
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released November 17, 2022. About 64 minutes.
Listen to the episodeThis Story is Nuts
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released April 14, 2021. About 20 minutes.
Listen to the episodeAmerican Justice
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 14, 2025. About 40 minutes.
Listen to the episodeRed Collar
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released September 8, 2022. About 44 minutes.
Listen to the episodeHard Times and True Crimes
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released August 20, 2025. About 87 minutes.
Listen to the episodeBasically A Detective with Blake Wooten
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 16, 2020. About 15 minutes.
Listen to the episodeTrue Crime Island
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released November 20, 2021. About 69 minutes.
Listen to the episodeTrue Crimes and Weird Times
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released April 28, 2021. About 41 minutes.
Listen to the episodeRed Collar
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released September 9, 2022. About 6 minutes.
Listen to the episodeBitch I Can’t
Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released October 9, 2023. About 48 minutes.
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Internet Archive · Library record · 1994
Bledsoe, Jerry. A library catalog record for a book connected with Barbara & Russ Stager. The record may offer a preview or borrowing options; full reading access is not guaranteed.
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The archive indexes this broadcast under Russ Stager, Barbara Stager. It may contain several stories; use any available captions or previews to locate the relevant segment. Full playback may be restricted.
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The North Carolina Supreme Court reviewed Barbara Stager’s prosecution for Russell Stager’s murder, upholding the conviction while ordering a new sentencing proceeding.
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Southern Fried True Crime
Episode 54: Black Widow Barbara Stager
Video from Southern Fried True Crime covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 1:13:09.
Watch on YouTubeTrue Crime Brewery
For the Love of Money: Barbara Stager
Video from True Crime Brewery covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 1:44:27.
Watch on YouTubeOxygen
Did This Widowed Sunday School Teacher Kill Her New Husband? | Black Widow Murders | Oxygen
Video from Oxygen covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 14:40.
Watch on YouTubeReal Crime
The Story Of Women Who Kill | The New Detectives | Real Crime
Video from Real Crime covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 53:19.
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Southern Fried True Crime — Facebook page
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